Like everything, even being a girl has its own disadvantages. Every girl reading this might or might not relate to my thoughts and every boy reading this might be giggling and thanking God for making him a boy at the end of this article. Now, back to the topic, there are certain things I hate about girls being a girl. Reason? There is no specific reason, but I personally feel life for girls is a little more hard than for boys. Yes, I know all the boys reading this would never agree with this. But trust me guys you are so lucky that you don’t have to deal with all these things a girl has to. So here is my Top 10 hit list of things I hate about girls being a girl.
Makeup is Compulsory
I am a girl and I love being simple as I am. There is a huge list for us girls from personal grooming to make up. One day you don’t apply Kajal or your eyebrows are not threaded and you get comments like, Are you ok? Are you upset? Did you wake up late? And a lot more…. Can’t I give my make up off for a day?
Why is it a must for every girl to wear makeup before leaving home? WHY WHY WHY and then men complain girls take hours to get ready. I wish us girls had the freedom to roam around without any makeup and still the eyes staring at her makes her feel beautiful. No eyes to stare and scare her saying that something is missing.
Yes, I know wearing heels are trendy, but that hurts our feet. Why don’t men wear heels, one day with heels and you would know how it feels standing with your slanting feet and smiling. Why do we have to wear heels to look we are following fashion and today’s trend.
We girls have to wear clothes that are in fashion. One day you wear loose comfortable pants in your office and you become the talk of town. Staying in fashion is like the most mandatory things for girls. Every eye inspects a girl from head to toe to check if we are in fashion or have made any blunder.
We work and study as much as boys do, but still for the same post boys get much higher salary than a girl. Why is that so? When a girl is on same designation and has to handle same work pressure, why can’t she get the same salary for it? Why is our society so biased?
Emotional/ Cry babies
We girls are so emotional and we just can’t help it. If we someone in pain, tears start rolling themselves. We don’t invite them for sure and even we don’t like being cry babies. That’s how God has made us, we just can’t do anything about it. We get emotional and then we cry 🙁
P E R I O D S
Every month mother nature comes to tell us that we can conceive and we haven’t conceived yet. Periods. The worst nightmare of every girl’s life which she has to face for days every month with pain and mood swings. I just hate it and I don’t think there will be any girl who loves periods at all.
God has given us girls a beautiful body with some add-ons that boys don’t have. But handling those add-ons is a task in itself. We have to wear some uncomfortable lingerie all day making us feel as if we are caged. And the worst part every second person staring as if we are either not from same planet or they have never seen a girl before :/
Pregnancy and Pain
Ask a woman what pregnancy is, and you will get to know that pregnancy is a very tough time for any woman. For 9 months a pregnant woman has to go through so much pain and so many changes going on in her body every moment. Yes, pregnancy is a beautiful time, but the pain associated with pregnancy for all those 9 months is not so easy to bear. And at final stage the labor pains of normal delivery or C-section, both are scary and very painful which only girls have to face.
We are emotional and somewhat weaker physically compared to men, but that doesn’t mean we are to be dominated. Be it India or any other country, girls are expected to be docile and I don’t like it at all.
Society expects a girl to be slim. Believe it or not, every girl faces the pressure to be slim. Being fit and staying fit is good, but if a girl has put on weight doesn’t mean she should be avoided or she has become the talk of town.
P.S – This article is my personal thought and I have no intention to hurt anyone’s feeling at all. There are times in one’s life when they have to face situations that they start hating things about their own self or gender. But this article does not mean that the life of a girl is to be hated, there are many things God has gifted only to girls and we girls do love being a girl for those things. But that doesn’t change the fact that I hate these 10 things about girls being a girl.